Church of the Week: McGonigle-Millville U.M. Church, McGonigle, OH

So many lovely churches dot the highways and byways of this world that have beautiful stories to tell and wonderful people to meet if we could only stop in and "set a spell," as Andy Griffith might have said. One of those, I'm convinced, is the McGonigle-Millville United Methodist Church at 2370 Lanes Mill Road in McGonigle, a stone's throw south of Oxford, Ohio.
I was there just over a week ago to officiate a wedding for some dear friends, and so entered the tidy sanctuary of this fine church, just one block off the well-traveled US 27 highway between Millville and Oxford.
I had visited this church once before, but that was for a rummage sale, so I only got as far as the fellowship hall (above). This time, of course, I got to familiarize myself with the sanctuary and kitchen and grounds, which are all very nicely kept (in fact, when I arrived early on Saturday for the wedding--which came off with a hitch (see what I did there?)--someone was there pulling weeds and seeing to the gardens around the church. I also picked up a bulletin from the previous Sunday, which I often do when being nosey--er, visiting a church, and so got to see the lovingly planned order of worship, including the ringing of the church bell, which I would love.

The flock at McGonigle-Millville U.M. Church is led by Pastor Chris Trumbull and is part of the Ohio River Valley District of the United Methodist Church's West Ohio Conference.

An Interview With a Desperate Pastor

Websites, blogs, and magazines often feature interviews with successful church leaders. We at the Desperate Pastor are different.

Very different.

So here, for your edification, is an interview with a former pastor. A failed pastor (in many ways). But one who is still desperate to know God and make him known. So, with that in mind, see if you can make any sense of the following interview, in which I interview...myself.

1. What is the biggest leadership lesson you’ve learned over the past year?

Well, inasmuch as I haven't been in an active pastoral role for the past three-and-a-half years, I think I've finally figured out all the right answers. That's a joke, son. But seriously, folks, I think one thing has been not newly but freshly impressed on me: great leadership is mostly good communication. Regardless of what organization you're leading or what decisions you're making, a huge part of the leader's job is communicating what needs to happen, why, and how. At every level. And more often than not poor (or non-) communication sabotages good decisions.

2. What is God showing you personally?

Maybe it's because I've been neck-deep in writing and rewriting The Red Letter Prayer Life, but man, oh man, God has been impressing on me not only the blessing and necessity of unceasing prayer, but also, as I say in the book, "prayer is first and foremost about the Father, not about us. It is not about getting things from God but entering into partnership with God. It results in blessings, but not as a result of seeking blessings but from seeking the Blesser—his glory, his kingdom, his will." That'll preach, bro.

3. What is the top ministry challenge you’re currently facing?

Patience. Having changed churches last December (along with my wife and family), I'm thrilled to be a part of an exciting part of Christ's body, but am constantly challenged not to run so fast that I over-extend myself, leave others behind, etc. It's a fun place to be but one that requires more patience than I come by naturally.

4. What is a ministry blessing you're currently enjoying.

A lot. I'm enjoying writing like never before and doing more of it than ever before. I'm thrilled to have launched a "31 Ways to Pray for Your Kids" iPhone/iPad app last month (based on the global success of my article and prayer resource, "31 Biblical Virtues to Pray for Your Children"). And I'm honored to be hosting a brand new blog on, called "A Thousand Ways to Pray," where I'll be posting about prayer every Tuesday and Friday. I'm loving the writing life, the praying life, the married life, and the grandparent life these days.

5. What do you do for fun?

Spend time with my wife, the lovely Robin. Spend time with my kids. Spend time with my grandkids. Read.

6. What books are you reading?

Writing Past Dark by Bonnie Friedman, Last Child in the Woods: Saving Our Children from Nature-Deficit Disorder by Richard Louv, and two novels: The Interestings by Meg Wolitzer and Magdalene by Angela Hunt.

Why I Value My Prayer Journal

I have been prayer journaling for years. For some time, I actually used two separate journals, one for thoughts and ruminations and the other for prayers. Then, a few years ago, I combined the two, at first using a different color ink for prayer than for other entries. Then I shifted again, and began simply concluding my journal entries with my prayers (still in a different color).

This post (here) capsulizes why I so highly value my practice of prayer journaling.

Church of the Week: Guesthouse Chapel, St. Meinrad Archabbey

On a recent prayer retreat at St. Meinrad Archabbey in south-central Indiana, the lovely Robin and I joined our fellow retreatants for a time of worship in the guesthouse chapel, sensitively led by the retreat director, our friend Kasey (Warren) Hitt.
The chapel, while much less elaborate and far more modern than most of the other spaces in the archabbey (though architecturally consistent with the guesthouse design), is nonetheless a beautiful place, thoroughly conducive to quiet and meditation. The acoustics allow a human voice to be heard throughout the room (which seats seventy or so quite comfortably, and could seat more). 
Over the weekend I saw at various times a single nun and a small group of nuns using the space. I re-entered myself for a few moments, and enjoyed its quiet and calm. 

What It Takes to Survive and Thrive in Ministry

We study everything these days. By that I mean we poll and survey and analyze and conduct studies on so many things, some of which you'd think would be obvious.

That seems to be the case with the following by Bob Burns on The Gospel Coalition:
What does it take for pastors to survive and thrive in ministry?

This was the key question asked in an eight-year study funded by the Lilly Endowment that I had the privilege to coordinate through Covenant, Reformed, and Westminster Seminaries....After hundreds of hours of meeting with pastors and their spouses, then working through the data, our research team identified five primary themes for fruitful ministry, which are shared in the book Resilient Ministry. While these themes aren’t the holy grail of ministry survival, my co-authors and I believe each one plays an important role in pastoral resilience.
Those themes are spiritual formation, self-care, emotional and cultural intelligence, marriage and family, and leadership and management.

On the one hand, it shouldn't take an eight-year study to figure that out. On the other hand, I am constantly amazed by how my ministry friends and colleagues ignore and neglect those priorities.

In fact, chances are you neglect those things too. So read more about the study and its results here. And please...if you're in ministry, make spiritual formation, self-care, emotional and cultural intelligence, marriage and family, leadership and management top priorities in your calendar, schedule, and life. Now.

A Thousand Ways to Pray

I'm thrilled to announce the launch of a new blog on "A Thousand Ways to Pray." As my first post on that blog says:
There are a thousand ways to pray.

Like Enoch, who “walked with God” (Genesis 5:24, KJV). Like Sarai, who laughed, though she didn’t know God was listening (Genesis 18:12). Like Joshua’s army, who shouted and blew trumpets (Joshua 6:16). Like Daniel, who opened a window toward Jerusalem and knelt to pray (Daniel 6:10).
The purpose of the blog is to explore, get this, a thousand (or more) ways to pray. To share my--and others--adventures in prayer. To encourage more prayer. To enthuse and equip people to pray.

I would be so very grateful if you would visit (click here), comment, tweet, post, pin, and email my posts. I'd love it if you would add the blog to your blog reader and/or bookmark it in your web browser. And please tell everyone you know about it.