Ministry Mulligans

By way of Tod Bolsinger's blog, I learned of an excellent article on Christianity Today, entitled "Ministry Mulligans." The author Jack Connell begins,
I used to be a pastor. For nearly two decades, I enjoyed the thrills, spills, chills and can't-quite-pay-the-bills of local church ministry. Now, five years after packing up my office for the final time (including two boxes of Leadership back issues), I still think about those years in the pastorate every single day. No exceptions. It's as though the word pastor is branded on my heart. And as I reflect on those 1,000 weeks in the world's most glorious, dangerous profession, I often think about what I would do differently if I had another shot at it. If I was given a ministry mulligan, here is what I'd do with it.
He goes on to list:

More collaboration, less competition
More pastor, less CEO
More rest, less rush
More friendship, less isolation

Not a bad list at all. As a pastor who has recently gone from a paid position to a volunteer preacher, I would say many of the same things. I might add,

more wisdom, less naivete
more deliberation in choosing leaders, less hurry
more "no," less "yes."

But don't just take my word for it. Read the whole article, and let me know what you think.

The Decider

President George W. Bush's Decision Points is not, strictly speaking, a book on leadership. But I decided to review it here on the Desperate Pastor blog because it does have much to say about leadership from the man who referred to himself (and invited ridicule and vitriol by doing so) as "The Decider."

As a presidential memoir, Decision Points is a remarkable book. He says he began writing on his first day as a former president and apparently one of his earliest decisions was to make this a book about his decisions. It is not a complete account of his presidency (in the epilogue, he mentions a handful of important decisions he did not cover, such as his decision to create the largest marine conservation areas in the world). But it does give fascinating insight into the most consequential decisions of his life and his eight years in office: quitting drinking, marrying Laura, running for governor and president, choosing Dick Cheney as a running mate and others for key positions, stem cell research, 9/11, the War on Terrorism, Afghanistan, Iraq, Hurricane Katrina, fighting AIDS in Africa, the surge, and the financial crisis,

Throughout, the man's native grace and intellect comes through (that's right--though he was mercilessly portrayed by his enemies and the media as a buffoon, the book describes his decisions in eminently reasonable terms). And also throughout, I was reminded as I read of one of the central truths of leadership: to lead is to decide, and to decide is to invite criticism. George W. Bush's presidency proved that axiom time and time again.

I was astounded to recognize that Bush did not aspire to the Texas governorship nor to the presidency until circumstances and people combined to create a sense of calling to those offices. I was impressed with the president's generosity toward his critics, and his prodigious respect for both his parents. I was surprised when he pointed out that his father, George H. W. Bush, became in 1988 the first man since Martin Van Buren (in 1836!) to be elected to succeed the president he had served as vice president. I was truly grateful to learn of the deliberation, struggle, consideration, and counsel that went into his decisions as president. And I often found myself shaking my head at the stark contrast between the man in these pages and the way he had been portrayed by the American media (if I hadn't already--some time ago--lost all faith in journalism and punditry in this country, I definitely would have after reading these pages).

Leaders of all political stripes can learn from Decision Points. Things like how to structure and staff an organization. How to recover from mistakes. How to earn and keep the loyalty of others. How to respond to criticism (and lies) respectfully. And more. It's an eye-opening and rewarding read, and a book that should make any American proud.

Church of the Week: St. John Lutheran, Decatur, IN

This week's Church of the Week on the Desperate Pastor blog is one I have passed on the road many times en route to Ft. Wayne, Indiana. This past week, however, I became more familiar with it.

I was on my way home from a very successful Christian writer's conference in Ft. Wayne, when my car began to exhibit an uncooperative--one might even say petulant--attitude. I pulled over and, after consulting a dear friend and expert on my cell phone, limped to the parking lot of St. John Lutheran Church (Missouri Synod) just six miles north of Decatur, Indiana.

After calling my wife, the lovely Robin, to come and rescue me, I made the most of the next three hours. I finished an audiobook. I took a brisk walk around the church. And I spent time in prayer with the aid of the Divine Hours (Pocket Edition) on my iPad, walking on the church grounds, and marveling at a falling star (I think the first I've ever seen).

Around 11:30 p.m., Robin arrived and we began the drive home, happy to be safe and buoyed by my friend's offer to tow the truck to his garage the next day. So, though I have no idea what the stately structure looks like on the inside and no familiarity with the saints who gather there for worship, St. John now has a special place in my memory. They don't know it, but this church hosted me and helped me in a time of need in April 2011.

Why I Journal My Prayers

I haven't always kept a prayer journal. I started journaling in 1991, but it was not a prayer journal.

Then, more than ten years ago, I determined to write down in a simple notebook at least one prayer a day for an entire year, as a way of fostering daily prayer. There was no more to it than that. It didn't have to be more than a single sentence. Sometimes, it was just a few words. Other times, it went on for a page or more. But I stuck with it. And the habit stuck, too.

Since then, I have found the practice of journaling my prayers to be a huge blessing. I do it to discipline and focus myself. I do it in conjunction with my habit of keeping Compline, or bedtime prayers. It helps to put a period (literally) at the end of my day. It helps to prepare my mind and spirit for sleep. After I commit any pressing items or concerns to the page, I literally close the book on my day.

Journaling my prayers has also become a wonderful aid to praise. Every so often I look back on the prayers of previous months or years, and I never fail to realize how God--and prayer--carried me through discouragement and disappointment, suggested new ideas and insights, processed questions, encouraged a change, and more. If I hadn't written them down, I would never have been able to see much of what God has done for me, and the many prayers he has answered.

Those are just a few of the reasons I journal my prayers.

How about you? Do you keep a prayer journal? And if so, why?

Cobblestone Missions Committee Refocuses Efforts

In a bold and unprecedented move, our fine missions committee at Cobblestone has decided to commit our entire 2011 missions budget to a promising opportunity on the African continent.

Working cooperatively with Dr. Clement Okon of Nigeria, Cobblestone is entering into a partnership with Okon to transfer the sum of $21,320,000 (US) into the church accounts. This money has been trapped in Nigeria and, due to Dr. Okon's position as a civil servant and member of the federal government contract review panel, he cannot acquire these funds in his name. However, he has agreed to share 1.20% of the fund with us, 2.70% with U.S. officials, 3.10% in settling taxation and all local and foreign expenses. The remaining funds will be used to set up Dr. Okon's importation business in the U.S.

In an email received just today, Dr. Okon said, "PLEASE NOTE THAT THIS TRANSACTION IS 100% SAFE AND WE HOPE TO COMMENCE THE TRANSFER LATEST SEVEN (7) BANKING DAYS FROM THE DATE OF THE RECEIPT OF THE FOLLOWING INFORMATION BY TEL/FAX 234-1-7740449, YOUR SIGNED AND STAMPED LETTERHEAD PAPER. THE ABOVE INFORMATION WILLL ENABLE US WRITE LETTERS OF CLAIM AND JOB DESCRIPTION RESPECTIVELY. THIS WAY WE WILL USE YOUR NAME TO APPLY FOR PAYMENT AND RE-AWARD THE CONTRACT IN YOUR NAME."

Obviously, the receipt of hundreds of thousands of dollars will make possible even more missions efforts in the future, and simultaneously help out this fine businessman and government official in Nigeria.

Once this transaction is complete, we plan to pursue similar partnerships with several Nigerian princes.

It's going to be great.