CommunityFest 09
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CommunityFest 09, Baby!
Praying for good weather and a great effort today. So many finestkind people have put their time and dedication into this effort, and we're praying for it to have a real impact, bless our neighbors, and let people mingle with a church full of people that aren't totally weird.
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10 Things That Are Harder Than I Expected
From the excellent church planter blog, Shaun In the City, a list of Ten Things (about church planting) That Are Harder Than I Expected:Starting (and growing) a brand new church isn’t easy. I’ve made a ton of mistakes since we launched 6 months ago and aired some of my dirty laundry for you by sharing a big ‘ol list of mistakes here. However hard you expected it to be, plan on it being much harder. Some people say it like this, “If you could (or want to) do anything else, do that.”All of those resonate with me (though #3 was only a challenge until our worship pastor, Sharla, came on board). But to those I would have to add:
Sounds harsh, but church planting, while fulfilling to the core, is just hard. I can’t say it any simpler than that.
Here is a quick list of 10 things about starting Courageous Church that have been much harder than I expected. They are not in any special order.
Over the course of this week, I’ll be breaking down a few of these areas in more detail. Let me know in the comments section if you want me to expound on one in particular.
If you are a church planter, do any of these resonate with you?
1. Fostering Real Diversity
2. Raising Money
3. Finding and Managing Good Musicians
4. Following Through on Lofty Promises
5. Training New Leaders
6. Not Bugging People about the Church
7. Pushing the Creative Envelope
8. Balancing Church Work, Family Life, Education
9. Informing People of Tough Decisions
10. Sticking to Our Mission/Vision
11. Communicating clearly and effectively
12. Handling conflict
13. Stopping gossip
14. Inventing and installing effective systems
15. Structuring for growth
That's not everything, of course. But it's a start.
I Need More Less is More Leadership and Less More is More Leadership. Need I Say More?
This week's book of the week happens to be by Dale Burke, Chuck Swindoll’s successor at Fullerton EV Free, who also used to pastor in Oxford, where I now pastor. But I’m reading it because of the title, and the promise of “Less is More Leadership.” I need that. See, I’m on staff in a church that wisely grants our staff a “weekend” off every week (Monday AND Tuesday). That’s NOT the rule among pastors, I know, and for all my previous ministry history, I felt like I was doing great when I got ONE day off a week! So how come, even with two days off a week (most weeks), one of which I reserve as a sabbath, how come I still feel like Wednesday morning hits and the next five days are a frantic ride on the back of a tiger who’s just been shot out of a cannon that was packed with rocket fuel? I’ve been asking this question of everyone I can lately, fellow pastors, friends, my shrink, you name it!
On the one hand, I and my fellow staff members accomplish a prodigious amount of work every single week, so I am grateful for that. But, on the other hand, I don’t feel like we’ve hit a rhythm yet, a routine to our week that contributes to peace, creativity, etc. Maybe our problem is partly the timing of a Mon/Tues “weekend.” After all, Sunday is game day, so to speak, for us, and it’s only natural for the whole rest of the week to point to that day.
Also, I know that we’re blessed as a church to have staff members whose tendency is to work too hard. That’s the kinda people we always wanna hire, of course. It’s a blessing, and sure makes for great staff relationships and cooperation. But maybe we’re not doing such a great job of helping each other achieve sanity in our routines and rhythms. Maybe we ALL need to figure out how to lead and still have a life (and Burke's book has been helpful, so much so that we've incorporated the video series into our staff meetings).
I know there are some pastors who don’t feel constantly under the gun...right? I see ‘em at pastors’ conferences all the time. They’ve got it figured out. They’re refreshed, they’re in the zone ministry-wise....so if you’re out there, tell me what I’m doing wrong!
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Books
A Preacher's Worst Nightmare
Sometimes the words just don't come out right....
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Preaching,
Video of the Week
PoopedPastors.com
One of the best pastor blog names out there (next to my own "Desperate Pastor" site, of course) is the Steve Brown-hosted "PoopedPastors.com." I've subscribed to the blog, and registered for the pastor forums they have on the site, which Steve claims is the best feature of the site.
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